Ending Physician Overwhelm
I'm Megan Melo, board-certified Family and Obesity Medicine Physician and Physician Coach. In this podcast we talk about the many ways that burnout shows up in our lives, and what we can do about it. I'm on a mission to help Physicians take steps towards to heal burnout by unlearning the habits of perfectionism, people-pleasing and limiting beliefs so that we can lead healthier, happier lives.
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Ending Physician Overwhelm
Work Is The Devil You Know
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What happens when you get an unexpected pocket of free time?
Be honest.
Do you rest?
Or does your brain immediately start scanning for something productive to do?
Laundry.
Inbox.
Charts.
Research.
That Spanish program you’ve been meaning to start.
If you’re a woman physician, chances are your brain does not tolerate white space very well.
In this episode, we unpack why.
Because this isn’t about poor time management.
And it’s not because you’re “just wired this way.”
This is conditioning.
You were trained to believe you could do anything.
Somewhere along the way, that became:
I should do everything.
And that belief is quietly stealing your rest.
Why We Fill Every Pocket with Work
There are three patterns I see again and again in coaching:
1️⃣ “I Should Be Able to Do It All.”
2️⃣ The Achievement Itch
3️⃣ “I Can’t Rest Until This Is Done.”
Imagine If…
- A free hour didn’t trigger a productivity spiral.
- You could take a nap without guilt.
- You could delegate without shame.
- You didn’t feel behind all the time.
- You believed rest was allowed before the list was complete.
Work is the devil you know.
Rest is unfamiliar.
But unfamiliar doesn’t mean wrong.
It might just mean you’re growing.
If this episode resonated, I’d love to hear from you.
You can reach me at healthierforgood.com, or email me megan@healthierforgood.
And if you’re ready to do this work with support, coaching is where we untangle this for real.
Until next time—take care of yourself like you matter.
Because you do.
To learn more about my coaching practice and group offerings, head over to www.healthierforgood.com. I help Physicians and Allied Health Professional women to let go of toxic perfectionist and people-pleasing habits that leave them frustrated and exhausted. If you are ready to learn skills that help you set boundaries and prioritize yourself, without becoming a cynical a-hole, come work with me.
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