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Ending Physician Overwhelm
I'm Megan Melo, board-certified Family and Obesity Medicine Physician and Physician Coach. In this podcast we talk about the many ways that burnout shows up in our lives, and what we can do about it. I'm on a mission to help Physicians take steps towards to heal burnout by unlearning the habits of perfectionism, people-pleasing and limiting beliefs so that we can lead healthier, happier lives.
The healthcare system is broken; but you don't have to wait until it's fixed to feel better. I'm here to help.
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Ending Physician Overwhelm
Trust Your Gut (Literally)
In today’s episode, I share a personal medical experience that taught me lessons about self-advocacy, trusting intuition, and seeking help - lessons that apply both personally and professionally in medical practice.
Episode Highlights
- My recent experience with an IUD placement that resulted in a perforation of my uterus, requiring laparoscopic surgery
- The importance of honoring your initial decisions about your medical care and advocating for your preferences
- Why listening to your body's signals (especially gut sensations) is critical - they often indicate something is wrong
- How we as physicians (especially women) are conditioned to delay seeking help and downplay our own medical needs
Key Takeaways
- Honor your decisions and advocate for yourself
- When you've made a decision about your care, follow through
- Don't hesitate to clearly ask for what you need
- It's okay to be "that person" when it comes to your health
- Listen when your gut speaks (literally and figuratively)
- Our gut is highly innervated and sensitive to abnormal situations
- Persistent unusual sensations are your body's warning signs
- The gut-brain connection is powerful - stress, anxiety, and depression all affect gut function
- Chronic symptoms like reflux, constipation, or IBS can be flags that something needs attention
- Be willing to get help sooner
- Don't wait until problems become severe to seek care
- We often delay our own care to avoid inconveniencing others
- Challenge the "comparative suffering" mindset that says your problems aren't bad enough to deserve attention
- Set boundaries about what you are and aren't willing to do without proper support
For Healthcare Providers
- Healthcare systems increasingly pressure us to do more with less support
- When we don't insist on adequate help, there's no incentive for systems to fix the problem
- Women physicians often receive less consistent support staff than male colleagues
- Recognize that our medical training has conditioned us to ignore our own needs
- We deserve support, both professionally and personally
Final Thoughts
We are all works in progress. Taking care of ourselves isn't selfish - it's necessary. We must let go of the belief that we must suffer a certain amount before deserving help, and instead acknowledge that we are worthy of support.
Let’s Stay Connected:
This work is challenging, but it’s worth it. If you’re ready to explore how you can reclaim your energy and redefine your path in medicine, I’d love to help.
📧 Reach me at megan@healthierforgood.com
🌐 Visit www.healthierforgood.com to learn about my coaching programs, including Unbound: Women Physicians Reclaiming Their Lives.
If this episode resonates with you, please share it with a colleague who might need to hear it. Your support means the world.
To learn more about my coaching practice and group offerings, head over to www.healthierforgood.com. I help Physicians and Allied Health Professional women to let go of toxic perfectionist and people-pleasing habits that leave them frustrated and exhausted. If you are ready to learn skills that help you set boundaries and prioritize yourself, without becoming a cynical a-hole, come work with me.
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